Judge Joel Baker

Mar 17

Advice Needed

I’m not griping, but yesterday I left the office after 7, ran to the grocery store to get something for my dear wife, and made it home at around 7:40.  After I changed clothes, etc., I think I saw my kids for about 5 minutes before they went to bed (except for Griff - he being the youngest, gets special treatment for some reason, and he got to stay up with me for 30 minutes - which was awesome!).  Now, I’m a pretty good dad, if I do say so myself.  I’m not good at “quantity” during the week, but I like to think I’m good at “quality.”  But yesterday stunk.  I tell myself (and others) “it will still be there tomorrow.”  I try to encourage others to go home to their families, etc., but I don’t generally practice what I preach unless my wife threatens me.  I’m not even sure why I’m typing all this stuff right now.  I don’t think I really want any advice because I don’t think I’ll change any time soon.  Perhaps I’m blogging because I’m delirious considering I’ve been awake since around 2am.

I just hope that my kids don’t feel like I’m the absentee father.  We have some really good times together, and I think we have created some really good childhood memories.  I just remember that when I was growing up my family always ate dinner together, and that happens infrequently at my house now.  I wonder how that will effect my kids.  Feel free to pontificate.

On another note, the reason I stayed late yesterday is because I’m working on acquiring something highly beneficial to the future of the county.  Cross your fingers.